Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Engagement ended...Indians answers ...?
first of all you did a big mistake by taking her as a responsibility rather then showing love and concern towards her. A girl has so many dreams when she gets engaged. She expects that the guy would show how much he loves her and how much he cares for her. But she got hurt when she found a sudden change in your behavior because she didn't expect it from you. But i think the way she expressed her hurt and anger towards you was not right. She should not have included her family members in this matter and should have discussed the matter with you instead. This indicates that the girl is dependent on her family members for each and every personal matter of her life. First she should have tried resolving the matter herself by interacting with you, if however it wouldn't have worked then she would have talked to her family about it and to be very frank this is not the right way on part of her family members to be rude with you. They should have instead tried to resolve the matter in a polite way. But as you said that she has made some false allegation about you as well as well as your family members then you don't deserve that girl as she doesn't trust you and also doesn't have respect for the family members of the guy whom she will get married to. This indicates that she might have shown disrespect to your family members even after marriage. And your marriage life wouldn't have been successful if she would share each and every matter of both of you to her family members. I think you took the right decision by breaking the engagement. However your behavior was not at all proper so you are also at fault but however this also helped you to know what type of person she is.
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