Why God send babies to a woman that hasnt planned to or dont want a baby; and those couples that want not?

because every person is different some people just can not have kids it may seem unfair but that is life. your not being punished it does not work that way some people are just lucky. things happen in life and there is no answer sometimes you just got to go with it. yeah it sucks but it is no ones fault. we are tested every day our strength our love our faith and our devotion. take for example a woman is told from the time she is 16 that she will never have a baby there is just no way but years down the road she ends up pregnant and that is after years of thinking and believing that it could never happen. if you want something bad enough in this life no matter what it is there are ways you just have to look and not give up. when it comes to having a baby there are drugs you can take things you can do and just cause you had to work harder to get what you want just means that when you get it that you will care for it even more. do you understand?